From The Life and Times of Bruce Gerencser:
I grew up in a system of religious faith that taught me a negative view of women. Every Independent Fundamentalist Baptist (IFB) pastor and professor who instructed me in the True Christian Faith® taught me the following:
- Women were created by God to be their husbands’ helpmeets.
- Women are commanded by God to be keepers of their homes. Their primary tasks are housekeeping, cooking meals, caring for children, and spreading their legs whenever their husbands want sex.
- Women, when compared to men, are weaker vessels and need the protection of males.
- Men are the head of their homes and their wives are to submit to their rule and authority.
- Women are temptresses, leading men (and teen boys) into sexual immorality.
- Women have the duty to dress in ways to keep men from lusting after them. Women, then, are sexual gatekeepers.
- Women cannot be pastors or serve in any church capacity that puts them in authority over men. Some of pastors and professors taught me that women were to be silent in church and were not permitted to participate in church governance.
These beliefs were modeled — albeit imperfectly and hypocritically — to me throughout my primary, secondary, and post-secondary years. It should come as no surprise, then, that once I began preaching and pastoring churches, I taught these beliefs to congregants.